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Day 292: Alone we can do so little; together we can do so much

Born in Middle Class America, my story isn’t special. Meaning, how I experienced myself growing up could be your story, or anyone’s story for that matter. Let me explain.

I was in second grade, around 7 or 8 when I first become aware of the variety of masks that people wear as their making some sort of a connection when they’re beginning a relationship with each other. I recall having strong emotional fears with regards to deciding which mask or character / personality to become even though I understood that it all depended upon the situation and the people and how I wanted to experience and express myself when being around them.

Bottom line, I was scared. Scared to get too close to anyone, because already by the time I was 7, I understood that people don’t stay, they leave. They go their own way for whatever reason and from the very beginning, I didn’t like subjecting myself to the emotional pain that inevitably happened when a relationship stopped / ended. It’s no surprise then that I can relate so much to the following quote:

“I find people around me are all making some kind of connection, like friendship or romance. But human bonds always lead to messy complications. Commitment. Sharing. Driving people to the airport. Besides, if I let someone get that close, they’d see who I really am and I can’t let that happen. So, time to put on my mask.” Dexter Morgan (Character) from the Showtime series: Dexter

I accepted early on in my life that what was going on within my mind with regards to my thoughts and my feelings and emotions within a fear of loss at the prospect of being rejected wasn’t worth giving my whole self to.  Because being rejected felt like losing a part of myself.  And so as I participated within and as ALL that,,, I withdrew into my own little world within and as my mind where I believed the lies that I told myself – which was that I didn’t want or need anyone to be happy, yet I was anything but happy.

So during my first couple of years in elementary school I remember spending a lot of time watching and observing other kids in my class. I envied the kids who would become the teachers favorite, and every day during recess I remember watching as the kids in my class ran around having fun together playing.   I remember wondering why I felt so alone and lonely inside myself and as I watched them go about their business, I experienced quite a bit of negative emotions and insecurity within and towards myself.  Inside my head, I was having thoughts / backchat,  asking myself what is wrong with me that I can’t seem to make the kind of connections with others that I see them making amongst themselves…

Almost in-spite of myself, by the time I reached middle school, I had established a few close friendships / relationships, both male and female. But even then, something within me in how I experienced myself within my relationships was off in that I felt like I never completely fit in with the relationship.  It was like I watched myself put on a mask, and depending upon who I was with, I would become some sort of character / personality, and in doing so, within my mind I began to blame and spite and resent others for how I was experiencing myself and I felt emotionally defeated.

I realize now that how I experienced myself back then and how I experience myself now with regards to my relationships with others, both individual or within a group, whether personal or business – had / has nothing to do with anyone else but me. Meaning, I am responsible for what goes on within me at all times and the same goes for what’s going on within and as my outer world / reality, because our outer world is a reflection of what we’re accepting and allowing to exist within us.

Therefore,  it’s important that I Stand Committed and walk this point through, breathing through the resistance in order to become stable and supportive within and as the Desteni Group , which is and has always been quite a pilar of support for me.  This I am currently walking the corrective application for,  but clearly,  my early experience into society as a child has influenced every relationship I’ve had…

 

Investigating the point now, I see how when I was a kid,  one of the things that would have assisted me greatly, would have been if someone – like my parents, or a teacher – would have been able to offer me support and guidance for what was going on within and as my mind, as thoughts and pictures, and the feelings and emotions and the fear!  That would have made a world of difference for me when I was growing up.

 

And I mean, it’s only been through walking the lessons in Desteni I Process Pro and applying the tools that the course provides that I’ve been able to understand for myself the goings on within and as my mind.  And more than ever, I see how important it is that we walk this life together supporting each other with a partner as well as walking within and as a Group.

changing the world together with dipThe Group should be supportive of ALL Life, because let’s be serious, there is NO WAY that one person will ever be able to bring about the kind of change that this world and everyone in it so desperately seek.

The kind of change that is required to our monetary system as well as All the world systems.

And unless we stand together as a Group and support the kind of freedom where the Foundation of Life on Earth begins with making All worldly decisions based upon and according to what’s best for all. That’s the only way that we can ensure that money is no longer God and thus no longer the thorn in everyone’s side and then, when we stop stressing out over NOT having food, or water and a home and clothes and an education – when All that mess and stress ends we’re going to be shocked at how just that point alone will completely change the relationships we have with each other and the relationship we have with others within our world.

If one look at the history of man and how our relationships with one another are by way of our thoughts and feelings and our emotions – we can then see how participating in them keeps us from being able to be objective. And when we’re not being objective then we fall into the realm of subjectivity – which means our decision making is personal, and subject to the influence of opinions by way of beliefs and thoughts and feelings and even subject to how we’re experiencing ourself at any given moment. And come on, at this point the decisions made in this world is also made based upon ego and greed, profit and the fear of survival!

I mean, there’s a lot going on within our mind that we cannot accept and allow when making life and death decisions with regards to how our current monetary / world systems operate / function.

And, until we can understand our own minds – like how and why we think and react like we do – because what I’ve learned through walking the Desteni I Process course is that I can direct who I am as my mind and in doing so I am able to take responsibility for myself and for what and how I’ve accepted and allowed Life on Earth to be lived as.

It’s Time to Question Our Reality, and come together as a Group to agree on a money system that will support Everyone… If we can’t do that, then we’ll have to continue to suffer because Hell on Earth is just getting started.

Time to forgive ourselves and each other, and make the most important decision we’ll ever make, not in the name of ouself but in the name of and for the future of how Life itself will be experienced as dignified here on Earth.

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2012 – Destonian Journey as the Desteni of the Universe

Timeline of Self-change in Self-Forgiveness



—>Timeline of Self-change in Self-Forgiveness <— Within these videos is the timeline of my process of self-forgiveness beginning in 2007 when I began applying the tools provided by Desteni Universe and Desteni I Process through to 2011.

Join me in 2012, as I continue walking a process of facing and stopping self of mind constructs and patterns through self-forgiveness, as well as standing in support of an Equal Money System – to bring an end to all atrocity.

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Network Marketing and the Law of Attraction

Video Link:”Network Marketing and the Law of Attraction, and Positive Thinking. If you do training, like ‘Dale Carnegie’ training courses and positive thinking. One of the facets of the training is based on network marketing. It uses the following premise: that for your business to be successful, that means to make money – you have to be part of a group and they normally propose the following groups: the church and sports clubs. Now both at churches and at sports clubs you are required to pay a form of a fee. At the church it’s a very clever one because it’s contributing to keep the group going by paying for the building and the pastor through donating money in a little bowl every time you’re there. And obviously the point that is emphasized is that it should be ten percent of your income. And through being at the church you’ll meet people and through meeting people because you are at the same church, you’ll be obliged to be neighborly and support each other by buying stuff from each other. And so the survival game continues.

At sports clubs you normally pay an annual fee and you will contribute to the club by drinking together, by having games together. All kinds of things but what is the real objective? The real objective is to network. The real objective is to meet people – you buy from them, they buy from you. The real ‘good’ neighborly thing. You know this is how Capitalism and Consumerism and Survivalism has made ‘Love Thy Neighbor as Thyself’. Join the group, make sure you do to your neighbor what they do to you – that’s means you buy from them and they buy from you. But there is never an actual solution or a way that brings about a change in this world. All that happens is everybody is playing this networking game.

Now the Corporation has taking networking to another level. They network through the financial institutions and the pension funds – shopping malls all over the world with some major brands that control the distribution of goods. All the distribution is networked and centralized through a warehousing logistic system and it forces all competition out of play and you end up with apparently free choice because you can go to one shop and buy many brands – that’s how it looks like. But in-fact, you’re entering a networking system where you are virtually forced to buy only from certain points and to contribute. What they then do is give yu all kinds of reward systems. They also sell the products at a price that you can’t produce it yourself, so you are completely disempowered and the networking game continues.

Obviously when one realize how networking work they also try and control what networking is allowed because it’s so simple if one understand what’s going on – to create a networking game and what they call airplanes and so on and you can actually make allot of money. But again, you have No Solution to the problem in the world. It is all just a form of ‘survivalism’, where one use the, ‘Love Thy Neighbor as Thyself’ thing in a greedy, manipulative, dishonest way. Where you buy from the neighbor so that they can buy from you and thus you both survive and you both understand that you need to do that to survive.

The suggestion is that one should look at ways rather where you can actually bring about a real change. You don’t only survive but you also participate and contribute to ways where you can actually bring about a ‘Permanent’ change where we don’t have to play these deceptive games. Obviously it’s not going to change overnight. You’re not just going to have a solution – we have to introduce it, understand it and understand all the dishonesties that we have based our existence on. That requires Self-honesty. We’re gonna have to take Responsibility for what we have done. That requires Self-forgiveness. Where you through your Self-honesty place yourself in an empowered position where you realize to what extent you’ve contributed to the great deception of this world through Money and the fake ‘love thy neighbor’ networking games that exist.

And you’ll notice that the ‘law of attraction’ and ‘positive thinking’ forms the basis of these networking games and has misdirected the ‘Love Thy Neighbor as Thyself’ point completely as well as the ‘Give and so you’ll Receive’ point as the message of Jesus into a complete deceptive way. And then you end up trapped in this game because once you get the group that support you effectively, then you share a form of wealth which is a form of Communism through Capitalism. It’s fascinating that all these things are actually just dimensions of the same coin.

Investigate ‘Equal Money’ so that you can see that it is possible to bring an end to this. Imagine this week in Europe the European Central Bank has introduced new printed money into the money supply by supplying to over 500 banks, 487 Billion Euros‘, at one percent interest. They created this money out of thin air and then they put it into the system where you through your labor will make the money real and it’ll end up in the pockets of ‘Banks and Corporations’. And once you’ve got some property they will reduce the money supply and they’ll take your houses and property and the ‘elite’ will get ‘richer’ and your slavery would have meant something to them but nothing to you.

But Imagine! Just as they create illusionary money we can create the same illusionary money through an ‘Equal Money System’ and give it the value of life and give to everyone Equally. One Gigantic Network, the ‘Network of Life on Earth’. And through this network we can create our own markets that support each other Equally and this fake game can get to an end. And at least ‘Love Thy Neighbor’ will include all neighbors equally. Investigate Equal Money. You owe it to yourself. But not so much yourself because you may not experience all the benefits in this lifetime but you owe it to your children because they’re going to need a change or we will destroy the world through our deceptive ways of networking without the consideration for what is here and where things really come from. Join us. Equal Money.”

Bernard Poolman
24 Dec 2011